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Submitted by griercamille on Jan 14, 2008 05:56 PM
Again I find a topic which interest me and which startles me,the alarming rate at which women are being killed by there romantic Partner and as you know I beleive in solutions how can we combat this problem.
This all goes back to resulting in poverty, when a parent is lost so will the economic support to the children
I know about this very well as I lost my father at a young age.The loss of my father has affected my life. I was never able to afford to finish college.
Now I say to you that women must protect themselves and there children while in any relationship. Lets examine the ways we can together and I am sure there are other ways.
1)be very strong in your identity of who you are before you enter into any relationship be intuned and concious even if you pretend not to be when you are sharp people will think twice how for to go that means being quick to jump on whats wrong
2)Be brave sometimes you might upset your partner and you might have to back it up
3)keep your extended family close to you, never move away long distance from your close relative and, allow them to visit as often as possible.This might sound annoying to some modern day family theorist but I guarantee you there is strenght in number. There is respect when there is strenght but dont throw your weight around.
4)learn when to stop arguing its hard but try
5)learn to jump in your car and get away from the arguing if your partner is not overly aggressive, if he is, face the problem and quietly call for back up
6)always have a cell phone escuse your self to the bathroom and do your thing
7)when you are pregnant visit your parents and keep intouch with them and have a relative come and stay with you,but remain very affectionate to your partner and continue your self maintance ei glamour,perfumes etc
8)Physical maneuvers if no other way out A)go for the private if you are being restraint b)go for the kneck if he come at you with a fist c)learn to block with your hands.learn to run and wiggle away. If you see death fight to the death,he might give up
9)do not get too thin forget what soceity say a thin weak woman will be a target for any out of control man eat up your food pack on a few pounds and go power walking dont worry someone will love you.
10)when a man wants to break up say good ridance and send him on his way even if you get nothing if you went into the relationship with nothing take nothing, have your own when you go in and make your own while you are in
11)sign a prenuptual. Its the modern thing to do work it out before you do it.
12)the first few sign of violence means its time to get out, you can.
Submitted by griercamille on April 8, 2008 - 6:12am.
To every woman I say it is time to beleive in hard work and independence . One must not rely on a man solely to provide for you. In the interim of becoming married develope a skill. Develop the ability to provide for one self even if you do land the rich husband . Be ambitious and be respectful of your body.
Do not only rely on your appearance but take time to invest in your personality, values and character
In developing these skills you will not become a pawn or victim of manipulation. Your intelligence will have grown.YOur values will carry you above any turbid waters and stand you on solid ground.